well I discovered that unfortunately the girl Arun likes said that she is not into him:(I mean I am sad for Arun..but I heard he said that he is going to forget about her..but I really don't know..if a guy once loved a girl would ever forget about her?I mean even after he got involved with another person?anyways I don't know if there is any guy reading this should tell me;)but in general I think the girl did the right thing to let him know..I mean I think both parties should be clear..I hate it when you don't know where you stand..it makes me feel...either the guy is clueless or is player...anyhow..I am trying to figure out which night is "the night of ghadr"...there is a saying that at this night the doors of heavon is open and you can wish anything from god..this night for me is a refection time..this year I want to focous on it more since before I always have been busy with school load..now I can reflect back on my years and think ahead and hope and pray to God that he shows me the write path for me...